Robert Bruce Martin, Jr.

Robert Bruce Martin, Jr., born May 1, 1971, was the beloved brother of Joyce (Daniel) Muth of Elizabeth Township; and the loving uncle of Zachary (Amanda) of Mt. Lebanon and Madison (Kent) of Elizabeth Township. He is also survived by his extended family of caregivers from Passavant, who loved and cared for him each day, as well as his housemates - his "Buddies" - who showed him unconditional love, patience, and understanding.

The family would like to thank everyone who was part of Bobby's journey, both past and present, for the joy, support, and comfort they brought into his life. Born at a time when disabilities were too often met without understanding or encouragement, Bobby overcame countless challenges throughout his life and touched the hearts of so many. He passed away peacefully and quietly, with the comforting thought that he is finally free to run once again.

Known for his mischievous smile, infectious belly laugh, and still-gorgeous head of black hair, Bobby never passed a stranger without offering a cheerful "Hello!" He loved Pittsburgh sports, especially the Pirates and Pitt Basketball. For many years, he could keep anyone up to date on the latest sports news or be found attending a game - although we're pretty sure it was just as much for the food as it was for the action. He also enjoyed playing sports with the Miracle League, where his favorite part was being with people who accepted him for exactly who he was.

Bobby's love for Christmas was unmatched. Whether he was enthusiastically singing his favorite carols (often at the expense of my sleep at 3:00 in the morning!), admiring colorful Christmas lights during evening drives while trying to take control of the radio, or worrying that he might be on Santa's naughty list and wouldn't have presents to open before everyone else, Bobby had a special way of bringing the Christmas spirit to everyone he met.

Throughout his life, Bobby faced many challenges because of the ignorance and misunderstanding of others. Sadly, as an adult, he again found himself facing hardships caused by power, greed, and hatred. He endured a battle that lasted six agonizing months - one no one should ever have to experience - but he was never alone. Strangers became advocates, friends, and even saviors. Through it all, the unmistakable spark that made Bobby who he was never faded. When that battle finally ended, Bobby found comfort, security, and peace at home once again with three new roommates who became his Buddies. Most importantly, he found caregivers he could trust who quickly became family by showing him unconditional love, patience, understanding - and, of course, spoiling him rotten, which he most certainly deserved. He began enjoying the things he had once loved and regained his faith in others.

In the end, Bobby courageously fought declining health. Many people, including complete strangers, prayed that his condition could be healed. Sadly, it was not to be, and he was finally freed from his pain. He was my brother. An uncle. A friend. And my hero. Rest easy, my sweet Bobby, with the promise that I and so many others will continue to fight this war on your behalf. I will continue to share your story, seek accountability, and make sure that the voice so many could not hear, and others tried to silence, will continue to be heard loud and clear.

I will love and miss you forever and always. Pinkie swear.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made in Bobby's memory to the Autism Connection of PA (Fulton Commons, 1564 Fulton Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15233), or online at www.autismofpa.org.

Private arrangements have been entrusted to the SAVOLSKIS-WASIK-GLENN FUNERAL HOME, INC., 3501 Main Street, Munhall, PA 15120. Condolences may be shared at www.swgfuneralhome.com.

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